Youth still doesn't have clarity on these two things: Love & attraction

Nowadays, Most of the Youth are turning into criminals by killing girls for their over possessiveness.

Generally, Attraction towards women is common for teenagers. All the youngsters are still confusing between love and infatuation.Before getting clarity on love and attraction, Youth are fallen in a deep relationship with their partners, which will lead to mistakes, sometimes, these are causes to losing lives also.

Specifically, Young guys are mostly trapped in the net of issues like love, attraction etc. The Men, who are in relationships with their partners, were failed to control their possessiveness If their spouse is moving closer to another guy, which may lead to murders of women.

The following raged murder issues recently done by youngsters in the city.

1. The murders of two sisters case in Nagol: In 2015, The accused Amithsinghe, lover of srilekha, had killed her brutally. He also murdered his sister Yamini, who tried to stop him. The accused confessed that He was unable to control his feelings when srilekha was closed to another person.

2. Miyapur- Chandini Jain case: Chandini's close boyfriend was cruelly killed her.The accused told the police that he was not able to tolerate being a close friend with someone else.

3. In a few days ago, Krishnaiah, who lives in Madhapur, was killed her sister in law Swathi(a degree student), who was ready to marry him.Krishnaiah told police that, She was very close to another friend of her, then he strangled her to death.

The experts say that Earlier, Love affairs have once happened amongst college students only, but they will get maturity with age and will get a clarity about their love.

Presently, The situation had been changed excessively.The Primary school age students are having love affairs with the influence of social media. On the other hand, Some of the youth have been crossing their borders due to lack of psychological maturity.

Especially, the impulsive behaviour of men is increasing, which may lead to grudging on girls and killing them due to lack of maturity and frustration.

The experts also said that the parents and teachers are failed to teach ethical values and personality development to the children. In the corporate education system, some school officials have been encouraging students to promote westernization. Children reading in such schools tend to habituated to rain-dances, pubs, and parties.

# Expert Advise to Women:

Attraction, love, friendship etc all the things that do not equate to a worthy of life.Experts feel that the women need to take care of themselves due to these things because Most of the women become victims of murders and assaults.Generally, Boys are attracted towards girls and Trying to make friends with them.

Currently, Experts suggest that, If women should avoid being close to boys in early stages.So, The boy can't take advantage.then she can protect herself in futures. Otherwise, Boys may turn cruel and they may take the lives of women or boy may end their lives.

# Advise to Parents:

The Parental supervision is the must on children. Parents should focus on developing moral values and personality development without prior education.The Decisions taken at the age of 25 are generally not mature. Parents should provide an atmosphere where children will discuss with them whenever there is a problem.